Please consider PEP 803 – “abi3t”: Stable ABI for Free-Threaded Builds
https://peps.python.org/pep-0803/
This is where we are for 3.15. The concept is stable and proven feasible; naming & packaging compromises are acceptable.
The C API WG voting/commenting is in progress.
Since this is partly a packaging PEP, I've also asked Paul for pronouncement: https://discuss.python.org/t/104976/72
You should be aware of @zooba's competing PEP 809. (Personally, I think it's not feasible in 3.15 but it can be rewritten as a follow-up proposal.)
SIG-specific: