Upgrade to torch 2.10

[dxqb]

git fetch origin pull/1266/head:pr-1266
git switch pr-1266

then update.sh / update.bat

based on #1189 and #1125 (comment)

Torch 2.9.1 #1189 has been well-tested but has not provided a clear benefit for us over torch 2.8, so we haven't upgraded yet. Maybe we skip 2.9.1 and go straight to 2.10 if that provides a benefit?

Does it fix

• - [Bug]: Double the ram usage after upgrading to Torch 2.8 #1125 ? - No.
• - [Bug]: Multi GPU error on Windows: unsupported gloo device #1122 ?
• - [Bug]: Compile transformer blocks when on Windows / MAX_PATH #1120 ?
• -

  OneTrainer/modules/util/compile_util.py

  Line 8 in 661872c

  #can be removed once https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/169726 is merged into a torch version we use

  ?
• should we also upgrade to cuda 13.0?
• upgrade -default and -rocm dependencies (to the best of our knowledge)

[dxqb]

don't upgrade rocm: pytorch/pytorch#173308